Friday, July 03, 2009

Can I judge?

Yet another day of internet failure and the only thought that’s running through my head is that I could’ve stayed at home, gone online and gotten some work done or I could’ve slept an hour more or so and come in a little later.

The other thing that was going through my head on my commute to the office this morning was how we all have sinned. And this has no exceptions! Even the best and the holiest person you may know has definitely sinned sometime or the other.

I remember one time, a friend asked me to pray for him because he was struggling with sin in his life. Then he looked at me as if to say - why are you not judging me for what I just said? At that time, I just smiled and assured him I would pray and we went on to discuss other things.

But now when I think of it, I wonder what gives us the right to judge people when we ourselves are in the same boat. Is it not said in the Bible that all have sinned and have fallen short of the glory of God? That right there is such an equalizer. Even though we categorize ourselves on the basis of gender, caste, creed, race, religion, culture, habits, etc. We have something that makes us equal in the eyes of God. We are all sinners.

What right do we have to judge people then? We all are guilty of this behavior. Some of us even more than the others. Some of us don’t even give people a chance to prove themselves before we judge them based on something really frivolous or something they may have done in the past. We are even willing to write people off because they do not fit the idea of how we think they should be. We put people in boxes that fit our convenience. It is so sad!

In Matthew 7: 1-5, Jesus says - 1"Do not judge, or you too will be judged. 2For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you. 3"Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother's eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? 4How can you say to your brother, 'Let me take the speck out of your eye,' when all the time there is a plank in your own eye? 5You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother's eye.

The consequences of judging people are very clear!

Wednesday, July 01, 2009

P413!

I've had this up as my status on google for quite some time. It stands for a verse from the Bible. It's from Phillipians 4:13 and it says - I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.


This verse has been such an inspiration in my life and has turned things around. I don't remember the exact moment I started believing this verse... I don't remember any thunder and lightning happening when the meaning became clear to me.. Don't remember skies opening up and light falling on my face... In short, it was not a dramatic moment but somehow I started believing that I can do all things because of God's presence in my life.


Note that it does not say I can do 'one' thing.. It does not say I can do 'two' things, 'ten' things or 'hundred' things' or 'a million' things... No! Not even 'many' things... But it says I can do 'ALL' things... And all includes everything!!!


Once I started believing this, my life changed drastically. I changed! My perspective changed! My fear of attempting hard things was gone and things that looked impossible before, didn't anymore. I knew that God gave strength, grace and courage for those things that we think are not possible or are too hard or problematic or unpleasant even.


So, people, I would like you all to understand and believe this... There is nothing more empowering or liberating than knowing that you can do ANYTHING when you have the backing of the most Almighty, Powerful God. So go ahead and don't be afraid.. Remember you can do 'ALL' things through Christ who strengthens you!

Tuesday, June 09, 2009

Yet another quiz

Once again the internet was not working which gave me some time to fill out a quiz that my ex-colleague made up after getting a little tired of all of those surveys made up by high school kids. Any one of you feel like taking this one?

1. What bill do you hate paying the most?
Cell phone, Internet and Electricity bills.

2. Do you miss being a child?
I miss being carefree and not having any responsibilities sometimes.

3. Chore you hate the most?
Ironing clothes!

4. Where was the last place you had a romantic dinner?
Bangalore (more than a year back and it was not romantic but very close but not getting into too many details)

5. If you could go back and change one thing what would it be?
I would make more efforts to never judge the person by the externals. Would want to give the person a chance to show what he/she is made of and who they really are.

6. Name of your first grade teacher?
Asha Ahuja

7. What do you really want to be doing right now?
To be on a beach or to go to water kingdom with my closest friends

8. What did you want to be when you grew up?
Teacher, Pilot, Fashion Designer, someone famous, list is endless…

9. How many colleges did you attend?
One

10. Why did you choose the shirt/dress/clothes that you have on right now?
I hadn’t worn it in a really long while and it was ironed.

11. What are your thoughts on gas/fuel prices?
It seems to me that they raise the prices on whims and fancies of a few selected people.

12. First thought when the alarm went off this morning?
Can I still make it in time to work if I sleep in for an extra half hour?

13. Last thought before going to sleep last night?
Thankful to my friend for persistently calling and checking in on me to see if I was ok because he thought I sounded a bit down.

14. What famous person would you like to have dinner with?
Johnny Depp

15. Have you ever crashed your vehicle?
No

16. If you didn't have to work, would you volunteer?
Yes. I would volunteer with a cause related to kids.. would volunteer even with the work I'm doing currently.

17. Get up early or sleep in?
Sleep in! Sleep in! Always sleep in! I’m so not a morning person.

18. What is your favorite cartoon character?
Jerry who absolutely drives Tom up the wall.

19. Favorite lunch meat?
Chicken

20. Do you go to church?
Yup! Regularly since childhood

21. Do you think marriage is an outdated ritual?
Nope

22. Movie you like but wouldn't want anyone to find out about?
Sound of Music

23. What's your favorite drink?
Lemon Flavoured Iced Tea

24. Who from high school would you like to run in to?
None. The ones I want to, I’m already in touch with.

25. Worst relationship mistake that you wish you could take back?
Taking it for granted that the person will always be around.

26. Do you like the person that sits directly across from you at work?
We get along.

27 Have you ever had to use a fire extinguisher for its intended purposes?
No.

28. What music are you listening to currently?
Stuff on my ipod of which Don’t cry Joni – Conway Twitty is sticking out like a beacon

29. Last book you finished reading?
The Chronicles of brothers

30. Do you have a teddy bear?
Ummmm No. Not right now.

- Taken on the morning of June 08, 2009

Tuesday, June 02, 2009

Dare you to move


For today's post, I thought I'd post the lyrics of a song that I really like a lot. At different points in my life, it has moved me to tears, encouraged me and just generally made me look beyond the point of failure. It's a song called Dare You to Move by Switchfoot. Let me know what you think of the lyrics.

Welcome to the planet, Welcome to existence
Everyone's here, Everyone's here
Everybody's watching you now
Everybody waits for you now
What happens next?, What happens next?

I dare you to move, I dare you to move
I dare you to lift yourself up off the floor
I dare you to move, I dare you to move
Like today never happened, Today never happened before

Welcome to the fallout, Welcome to resistance
The tension is here, The tension is here
Between who you are and who you could be
Between how it is and how it should be

I dare you to move, I dare you to move
I dare you to lift yourself up off the floor
I dare you to move, I dare you to move
Like today never happened, Today never happened before

Maybe redemption has stories to tell
Maybe forgiveness is right where you fell
Where can you run to escape from yourself?
Where you gonna go? Where you gonna go?
Salvation is here

I dare you to move, I dare you to move
I dare you to lift yourself up off the floor
I dare you to move, I dare you to move
Like today never happened, Today never happened before

Wednesday, May 20, 2009

Looking for love


As I was speaking to someone just yesterday, some of the things she said just struck me and stayed in my mind. One of those things is everyone’s looking for love. I thought about it and realized that at the end of the day, it all came down to this. Everyone’s looking for love… in some way or the other…

You see it in the stretching of the hand of the little girl who comes up to your rickshaw at the signal and begs. She’s looking for love.

You see it in the eyes of the little kid who looks to his dad when he’s done something he shouldn’t have. He’s looking for love.

You observe it in the slump of the shoulders of the girl who’s just been told that she is too tall or dark or fat or thin. She’s looking for love.

You hear it in the silent cry of the boy who’s just been told by the love of his life that she doesn’t care for him anymore. He’s looking for love.

You feel it in the desperation of someone who’s trying to find solace in alcohol or drugs or contemplating ending their lives. They’re looking for love.

You sense it in the insecurity a parent displays when his child has grown up, become independent and gone their way. He's looking for love.

You become aware of it in the emptiness she feels after she’s come back home from her highly paying, prestigious, forward moving, career oriented day. She’s looking for love.

You notice it in the wanderings of the lonely traveler who tries to fill the big empty void in his life by traveling to various places. He’s looking for love.

You find it in the preoccupied and absent minded manner as she goes about preparing food and cleaning the house and waits uncertainly for her husband to come back home. She’s looking for love.

You stumble upon it in the aimless way he kicks a stone as he walks on the beach with no idea where he will go from here. He’s looking for love.

You detect it in the way she holds herself and stares into nothingness with unseeing eyes. She’s looking for love.

Call it what you want. Seeking approval, having a sense of worth, earning respect, valuing yourself.. it all comes down to the fact that everyone’s looking for love.

Friday, May 15, 2009

Those days and These

Grrrrrrr……. Another morning of internet failure! And this puts a stop to all of the communication that takes place through email and all of the work that can be done on the internet. I came into the office at 7:30 a.m. (which is very early by any standards) thinking how I would take all this time to look at all my backlog of emails and answer all of them. But I’m stuck in the office with no internet and very limited things that I can do, which brings me to my first question. How did we come to depend so much on the internet?

Those were the days when people would come in to work and make notes on a pad of paper with a pen. Or go through huge files to get a small piece of information. These days, ‘paperless’ is the way to go.

Those were the days when people sent letters and actually wrote them out or typed them on a typewriter instead of desktops and laptops like they use these days.

Those were the days when people went out to the post office and bought stamps for their letters but these days most people don’t know where the post office for their area is located, leave alone making obsolete the practice of collecting stamps of various shapes and sizes and origins.

Artists these days have gone the computer way. Gone are the days when more often than not artists were about drawing, painting, using water colours or other colours. These days it’s about graphics and designs and way over cool stuff that can do shades, effects, play around with the light, etc.

Look at the size of those old phones... They were so big and bulky and noisy.. These days we have tiny cellphones that fit in the palm of our hand, they can show us who is calling and also we can switch it to silent so that it doens't bother other people...

People had to look up difficult words in a dictionary earlier... but now you can just google anything that enters your mind and you will find many, many links worth of information that comes up.

Those days people had to travel for meetings, conferences, etc... These days online meetings, skype meetings, etc. are the norm.

Alright people, thanks for letting me ramble on like this without aim.. I have a meeting that I should be in about 5 minutes... So I shall take your leave and continue to crib about the internet failure till it comes back on.

Wednesday, May 13, 2009

F.R.I.E.N.D.S

I know I’ve been silent on the blog front for quite some time… It’s just that I’ve been busy and have had no time to blog. But yesterday morning, we had an internet failure. And so I had some time on my hands since most of my work is email based and depends on whether we have internet or not. So here goes…

The last few days have been so crazy but I’ve still been able to spend time with some really amazing friends. And through these last few weeks, one thought has constantly been on my mind. I’ve been thankful that God has blessed me with some amazing friends.

You know you have no choice about the family that you are born into (And not that I’m complaining) but friends are actually those family that you get to choose. So how cool is that!

I’ve just been touched by the unconditional love and kindness that my friends have offered me whether it is helping me with something, making sure I get to the airport ok, putting me up for a night because I didn’t want to make the long trip back home after a late working night, making sure I’m not alone and bored when I’m in a different city, taking me out for a meal because they think I’m stressed and that I needed to relax for a bit, a phone call just about when I felt like I had to talk to someone or I would go crazy, or checking in on how my day went when they knew I had some difficult things to deal with that day... Oh the list goes on…

Those acts of random kindness have touched me, filled me with love and respect for them, taught me to value them even more, made my life easier and have made me feel special, loved and wanted. So at the end of it all, I just want to say – Thank you God for the family you let us choose!